Having a little boy comes with a big decision – should you circumcise your baby? Circumcision is a hot button topic. It ranks up there with baby ear piercing (which happens to be one of my most controversial, intensely debated articles).
There are pros and cons of circumcision, and the choice is ultimately the parents.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) used to be neutral on the subject of circumcision. But in 1999, they changed their opinion and they do not recommend routine circumcision. The AAP argues that circumcision is not essential to your baby’s health, so as parents, you must choice what is best for your son. You should think carefully about the benefits as well as the risks of the procedure.
As of January 2012, the American Academy of Pediatrics does not recommend all baby boys to be circumcised. The benefits are not sufficient for them to recommend circumcision. However, by August of the same year, there was new evidence that the health benefits outweighed the risk for infant male circumcision. The American Academy of Pediatrics revised their policy statement, and still said that the health benefits were not strong enough to recommend routine circumcision for all little boys. So the choice to have your son circumcised is still up to you – the mom and dad.
What is Circumcision?
Circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin (which is the loose sleeve of skin that covers the end of a boy’s penis).
In the United States, if you choose to have your baby boy circumcised, it is routinely performed before the baby leaves the hospital – usually within the first 48 hours after birth.
Circumcision can also be done after the newborn period, but it comes with more risks and it is more complicated.
For some families of certain faiths and cultures, circumcision is a religious ritual. For example, many Jewish and Islamic families perform circumcision as a religious rite. Circumcisions performed as religious rituals are usually done at home. In the Jewish faith, circumcision is performed on the eighth day after birth.
Circumcision is more popular in the Canada, the United States, and the Middle East. It is rarely performed in Europe, Asia, Central and South America.
Why Circumcise Your Baby?
Many parents circumcise their little boys because of the potential medical benefits to the procedure.
The health reasons for circumcision are heavily debated in the medical community, and some professional organizations – like the American Academy of Pediatrics – cite that there is not enough evidence that circumcision is actually medically beneficial.
There is some evidence (backed by scientific studies) for why parents might want to circumcise their babies. The benefits of circumcision include:
1.Easier Hygiene – Keeping the penis clean is much easier with a circumcised penis. Boys who are not circumcised will need to gently pull back the foreskin to rinse the head of their penis and the inside fold of the foreskin.
2.Decrease Risk for Urinary Tract Infections – Circumcised babies have a smaller risk for developing urinary tract infections (UTI) in infancy. A baby boy who is circumcised has only a 1 in 1,000 chance of getting a UTI in his first year of life. A little boy who is left intact has a 1 in 100 chance of getting a UTI. Despite the risk of UTIs, only about 1 percent of uncircumcised boys will develop a UTI.
3.Lower Risk of Penile Cancer – Circumcised boys have a lower risk of developing cancer of the penis. This type of cancer is extremely rare, though. Only 1 in 100,000 men will develop penile cancer, and only about 300 men die from the disease annually. In addition to having an uncircumcised penis, other risk factors for cancer of the penis include the human papilloma virus (HPV), smoking, having AIDS, and being over age 65.
4.Prevents Foreskin Infections – Because circumcised boys do not have foreskins, they do not get foreskin infections. Uncircumcised men can occasionally have irritated foreskin, but this is easily treated with antibiotics.
5.Decreased Risk for STDs – Some data suggests that circumcision may help prevent sexually transmitted infections, like Chlamydia, HPV, and genital ulcer disease. Women who have sex with uncircumcised men are at higher risk for getting cervical cancer. There is also some evidence that supports circumcised men have a little bit more protection against HIV.
6.Lower Risk for Prostate Cancer – There’s also some research that suggests that circumcision may decrease the risk for prostate cancer. In a 2012 study of 3,400 men, being circumcised lowered the risk for prostate cancer by 15 percent.
Risks of Circumcision – Why NOT to Circumcise
Circumcision is a surgical procedure, so it does carry some risks. Because circumcision is routinely done, the risk of problems is low (under 3 percent).
- Bleeding and Irritation – This is the most common problem that a baby may experience after being circumcised. Sometimes, the newly exposed head of the penis can get irritated by urine and by the pressure of a diaper. This irritation is easily remedied with the application of Vaseline or petroleum ointment on the affected area.
- Pain – Circumcision is painful to your newborn. Although researchers do not know exactly how painful the surgical procedure is to your baby, the screaming and kicking of the newborn indicates that it hurts. Tylenol is the primary pain reliever that hospitals used to help with the pain, but it doesn’t always do its job. Anesthesia is not universally used.
- Risk of Injury to the Penis – Circumcision always carries a risk of injury to the penis. Sometimes, not enough skin is removed during circumcision, and circumcisions have to be “redone.” Other times, too much tissue is removed and this can cause painful erections later in life. Occasionally, the glans (the head or tip of the penis, which is covered by foreskin) is injured during the procedure. In rare cases, it is completely cut off.
- Sexual Pleasure – There is no consensus on whether getting circumcised will reduce sexual pleasure. Some experts believe that circumcision will decrease sexual pleasure down the road; others do not believe it makes a difference.
Before you make the decision to circumcise, you need to have the doctor explain the risks and benefits of circumcision to you. You need to provide written consent before the procedure is performed.
For decades, virtually all American parents were circumcising their babies. Everyone was doing it, so all boys had the procedure done. Today, the percentage of circumcision is steadily decreasing.
According to the National Hospital Discharge Survey, in 1999, only about 65 percent of newborn boys were going home circumcised. By 2008, this same survey showed that in-hospital circumcisions dropped to 56.9 percent.
Only half of all baby boys are getting circumcised today.
Despite the decline in circumcision statistics, an estimated one million baby boys are circumcised every year in the United States. It is one of the most common surgical procedures performed.
The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) report that circumcision is typically more common in babies who are born to weather families (higher socioeconomic status), and little boys born in the Midwest and Northeast.
How to Care a Newly Circumcised Penis
If you decide to have your baby boy circumcised, it’s important that you keep the genital area clean. You do not want it to get infected.
- Gently clean the area with warm water and soap. Avoid using diaper wipes.
- Some pediatricians recommend that you gently dab the penis with petroleum jelly (Vaseline). This may help prevent diaper friction.
- If there is a bandage on the penis, you need to apply a new one every time that you change your son’s diaper.
For most babies, it will take between 7 and 10 days after the circumcision procedure before the penis is healed. At first, the tip of your baby’s penis may look bruised, swollen and red. There may also be some blood on the diaper. Sometimes, there may be a yellow crust on the penis.
You need to contact the doctor if is persistent bleeding, continued redness, a fever, pus-filled blister, foul-smelling discharge from the penis, or any other signs of infection. You should always contact the pediatrician if your baby does not start normal urination within 12 hours after getting circumcised.
Actually another benefit of not circumcising is sexual pleasure for his partner. Girls can rach an orgasm 3x longer. Dont need lube in sex. And prefer sex with an intact male 8.6-1. Btw if you dont think cutting the top of the most sensitive part of a male will hurt hurt or reduce sexual pleasure, youre not a very smart individual if you cant think of anatomy linking in that way.
The New Daddy says
I have a son on the way and he’ll be left intact. I couldn’t bare to see him go through the pain and the healing process. Besides, I’ve never had any problems so I don’t even consider it a risk in leaving it.
I chose to leave my son intact, and it has been one of the best decisions I have made for him. Personally, I found it much easier to care for his intact foreskin than other moms dealing with a healing circumcision wound. He has never had any kind of infections, and it is very easy to clean. We don’t EVER retract his foreskin. I am a member of the Intact Network, which provides lots of support and information for parents considering this issue. https://www.facebook.com/TheIntactNetwork